"I don’t broadcast every high & I don’t hide every low. I’m trying to live. I’m not trying to convince the world I have life."
Unknown (via intensional)
Oh my god(via mereino)
A calm day on the lake.
"I spend a lot of time alone because I only have a small quota of dignified behavior at my disposal."
Hannah Gadsby (Twitter)
Delphine the Science Queen
(sung to the tune of the “Bill Nye the Science Guy” theme song)
The progression of video games in a few decades.
"a few decades" is a bit inaccurate. It’s more like ‘13 years"
Holy fuck! I feel old…
How to change the world one shrug at a time.
This is, by far, the best response to inquiries about male cross-dressing that I have ever heard. If you don’t already love Eddie Izzard, you might now. His response in a nutshell? “I’m not wearing women’s dresses. I’m wearing my dresses. I bought them. They are mine and I’m a man. They are very clearly a man’s dresses.”
Johnny Depp does a similarly good job of refusing to take the bait in this clip from the Late Show with David Letterman. Letterman queries his rationale for wearing a women’s engagement ring. Depp just plays dumb and ultimately says that it didn’t fit his fiancée, but it did fit him. So… shrug.
The phenomenon of being questioned about one’s performance of gender is called “gender policing.” Generally there are three ways to respond to gender policing: (1) apologize and follow the gender rules, (2) make an excuse for why you’re breaking the rules (which allows you to break them, but still affirms the rules), or (3) do something that suggests that the rules are stupid or wrong. Only the last one is effective in changing or eradicating norms delimiting how men and women are expected to behave.
In these examples, both Izzard and Depp made the choice to disregard the rules, even when being policed. It seems like a simple thing, but it’s very significant. It’s the best strategy for getting rid of these rules altogether.
Thanks to Dmitriy T.C. for the links!
"you had such a thirst for knowledge; and now school has ruined that."
something that someone said to me recently and I think about it a lot. (via writerings)
Story of my life… Spanish education system sucks, specially with the right-wing ruling… HOMESCHOOL!!
"Simplicity involves unburdening your life, and living more lightly with fewer distractions that interfere with a high quality life, as defined uniquely by each individual."
Linda Breen Pierce (via rose-colored)